OT - Forum Etiquette and the errors of my way - OT

mEGG_My_Day

I was going to post this in the 'closing account' thread, but I have no idea where that thing is going.

However, that thread had me thinking about forum etiquette.  I haven’t been here long.  My first post was last August.  I had a few posts early on that had, what I thought at the time, were slightly snarky or unnecessary responses.  I have gone back and looked and now I think they are just funny or silly.

The point being, in any community, it takes a while to understand the dynamics and assimilate a bit.

I also went back and noticed some things I did (or didn’t do) that I would now find negligent or offensive.  For instance, my very first post was a beef rib cook I did.  I received a ton of positive posts and welcomes to the forum.  I just looked, and I did not ‘like’ or ‘agree’ with one of those responses.   At the time, I didn’t know any better. I have corrected that error, so those of you who responded to my first post have received ‘likes’ or ‘agrees’ 10 months after the fact.

And thanks to all for a very warm welcome 10 months ago.

StillH2OEgger

Let it be said, you're a good mEgg.

Jeremiah

Well welcome again. 

Biggreenpharmacist

Well damn, I've been here a while and I don't think I've ever hit like or agree or anything unless I accidentally hit with my fat fingers on my phone.  I guess I should be ex-communicated.  I didn't know.  

lousubcap

@mEGG_My_Day - thoughtful post and again welcome.  I'm too old to remember back then. 

TEXASBGE2018

Yes, Welcome again. I find myself at odds internally on here because in person I am a smart a**, snarky, and I am sure I can be perceived as offensive to some in my replies because I am not a bullsh*tter. I tend to use colorful language when something/someone irritates me. I will tell you my opinion whether you like it or not and its your problem to deal with it how you feel you need to. But on here I try to watch myself because I don't want to come off that way all the time. It's also different in person vs. on the internet because in person body language and facial expressions play a large role in how one is perceived. In person when speaking to someone they get a much better feel of your intended meaning. There are times on here that I wanna say what I am really thinking but I know it will be thought of as rude or offensive by some. So I don't.

GrateEggspectations

mEGG_My_Day said:

I was going to post this in the 'closing account' thread, but I have no idea where that thing is going.

However, that thread had me thinking about forum etiquette.  I haven’t been here long.  My first post was last August.  I had a few posts early on that had, what I thought at the time, were slightly snarky or unnecessary responses.  I have gone back and looked and now I think they are just funny or silly.

The point being, in any community, it takes a while to understand the dynamics and assimilate a bit.

I also went back and noticed some things I did (or didn’t do) that I would now find negligent or offensive.  For instance, my very first post was a beef rib cook I did.  I received a ton of positive posts and welcomes to the forum.  I just looked, and I did not ‘like’ or ‘agree’ with one of those responses.   At the time, I didn’t know any better. I have corrected that error, so those of you who responded to my first post have received ‘likes’ or ‘agrees’ 10 months after the fact.

And thanks to all for a very warm welcome 10 months ago.

I had been holding a grudge, but this clears things up; consider us good. 

Just kidding. 

While it it is always nice to “like” or “agree”, I would never think this an outright obligation. Still very considerate of you to revisit past posts. 

SonVolt

Is it forum etiquette to prefix a thread title with "OT" when it's posted in the "Off Topic" forum? 

nolaegghead

SonVolt said:

Is it forum etiquette to prefix a thread title with "OT" when it's posted in the "Off Topic" forum? 

no.  if you put it in the off topic category it would be redundant.   but people do, presumably because they use the view of all threads ordered by last comment date

dmchicago

SonVolt said:

Is it forum etiquette to prefix a thread title with "OT" when it's posted in the "Off Topic" forum? 

Here we go...

SonVolt

Where we going?

DoubleEgger

SonVolt said:

Is it forum etiquette to prefix a thread title with "OT" when it's posted in the "Off Topic" forum? 


Yes. Double or Triple OTs generally means it’s off the reservation. 

DoubleEgger

Also remember that many of us have met in real life and consumed adult beverages together. A lot of the ribbing is amongst good friends. 

Biggreenpharmacist

SonVolt said:

Where we going?

To drop you off at the short-bus stop?

Eoin

Good post @mEGG_My_Day. There's a bit of banter on here but everyone is helpful and if you get involved you will learn a lot and have a good time.

SSQUAL612

northGAcock

I think you / we all have to take in consideration that this is the Internet, and it does not reflect voice tone or sarcasm in a way many new members will understand on day one. What ever you do, don't take things too personal. If you find something that you can't let go of, reach out by personal message to that individual. If the other side want respond or fails to consider your views....it might be best to let it go. On the other hand, I don't think there are many on here who intentionally speaks harsh of another. Most would not bend over backwards to help you. One thing to keep in mind.....we all have a common interest.....but we also all have our own ways of communicating, cooking process and sports teams. Have fun with it and if something rubs you wrong or you aren't interested.....don't participate in that thread. 

I know i have second guessed many things i have posted on here....and not always the most politically correct. Have fun and remember, those who dish it out....need to be able to take it too.

blasting

@northGAcock Well said Robin.

fishlessman

all sins committed on friday are forgiven by monday.. .. ..they should put that in the forum rules

1voyager

Biggreenpharmacist said:

SonVolt said:

Where we going?

To drop you off at the short-bus stop?

While driving 70 mph?

SSQUAL612

This forum is about food, cooking, having fun with your EGG and similar topics ... please don’t post links or images or create posts that are irrelevant for the purpose of this forum, which includes insulting, offensive, racist, sexist, political, discriminatory, obscene or vulgar remarks or any post which may be found to be in violation of any law or ordinance. This includes posts on topics which have nothing to do with enjoying a Big Green Egg, or which are polarizing or inflammatory in nature. If you do any of this, we will of course delete the post and call upon the Buffalo to determine the extent of your suspension or permanent ban. 

Please make the effort to be respectful of other users, moderators and administrators at all times. We are talking about the BIG GREEN EGG after all, so don’t be a troll -- lighten up and have some fun!

You have every right to disagree with fellow forum members and explain your perspective, however, thou shall not get combative or attack, degrade, insult or otherwise belittle fellow posters or the forum staff or the quality of this community. It does not matter what stature you think you hold in these forums, you are expected to maintain decorum and play nice. The Buffalo is ever vigilant, and doing otherwise will get your account suspended temporarily … or permanently if the situation is blatant or repetitive.

Above all, this is not a gathering place for insults – if you can’t keep it upbeat, at least be neutral – if you have to be snarky, please post elsewhere. 

The_Stache

“I’m with you fellas”

theyolksonyou

SSQUAL612 said:

This forum is about food, cooking, having fun with your EGG and similar topics ... please don’t post links or images or create posts that are irrelevant for the purpose of this forum, which includes insulting, offensive, racist, sexist, political, discriminatory, obscene or vulgar remarks or any post which may be found to be in violation of any law or ordinance. This includes posts on topics which have nothing to do with enjoying a Big Green Egg, or which are polarizing or inflammatory in nature. If you do any of this, we will of course delete the post and call upon the Buffalo to determine the extent of your suspension or permanent ban. 

Please make the effort to be respectful of other users, moderators and administrators at all times. We are talking about the BIG GREEN EGG after all, so don’t be a troll -- lighten up and have some fun!

You have every right to disagree with fellow forum members and explain your perspective, however, thou shall not get combative or attack, degrade, insult or otherwise belittle fellow posters or the forum staff or the quality of this community. It does not matter what stature you think you hold in these forums, you are expected to maintain decorum and play nice. The Buffalo is ever vigilant, and doing otherwise will get your account suspended temporarily … or permanently if the situation is blatant or repetitive.

Above all, this is not a gathering place for insults – if you can’t keep it upbeat, at least be neutral – if you have to be snarky, please post elsewhere. 

:yawn:

thetrim

I flagged that as a troll post!

thetrim

Whatever you do, just don't steal another man's flag or insult his airport!

SSQUAL612

thetrim said:

I flagged that as a troll post!

Careful when you summon the Buffalo.

northGAcock

thetrim said:

Whatever you do, just don't steal another man's flag or insult his airport!

Funny man!

Killit_and_Grillit

DoubleEgger said:

Also remember that many of us have met in real life and consumed adult beverages together. A lot of the ribbing is amongst good friends. thetrim said:

Whatever you do, just don't steal another man's flag or insult his airport!

Legume

SSQUAL612 said:

 This includes posts on topics which have nothing to do with enjoying a Big Green Egg

Well, that would take out about half of the actual cooking posts - you know the ones where people learn more about making pizza, sous vide, best tailgating setups, griddle cooks, whole hog and large format smoker cooks, cute little brick micro-patios for other kinds of cookers, regional restaurant and travel recommendations, lump discussions, vegetable garden discussions, sharing of life's highs and lows with the community and receiving support, etc., etc.  yeah, sign me up, sounds like a KJ or Traeger forum.

lousubcap

You do know that emoticons can be used to help frame the intent/sentiments behind the words in a post...  give them a go some time.  

alaskanassasin

I have to say Legume is my favorite poster.