PSA- A good read about teens and "doing the dirty deed" (Animal House) and perhaps some insight-PSA

lousubcap

Here you go:
https://www.huffingtonpost.co.uk/entry/first-time-sex-kit-losing-virginity-help_uk_6229cbaee4b0d1329e80b47d?utm_source=nextdraft&utm_medium=email  
I found the venue for this topic (2 sons) was at night driving the car-no one sees the facial expressions and generally listens.  
Whatever works for you. 

HeavyG

“The fact that so many teens and young people go through the processes of dating and intimacy without proper guidance is not good enough and can be easily repaired,” she says. “If we remove the taboo and shame from talking about sex, then authentic pleasure can come more naturally."

True dat.

dmchicago

Great. Now I’m responsible for “authentic” pleasure?

HeavyG

dmchicago said:

Great. Now I’m responsible for “authentic” pleasure?

Don't worry... it doesn't specify for whom.

lousubcap

@dmchicago - if authentic pleasure is a challenge then you need to either do a better job (easy for the woman to heed or fake that request) or dial up the proverbial $$ shot.
No pressure here...

dbCooper

I've known women that were schooled in the "men are like linoleum" camp... "lay them right the first time, then you can walk all over them for years".  Those in the market should be wary around that type.

lousubcap

@dbCooper - I never met or knew a high school girl with that approach.  Perhaps I was too conservative?? IDK and who GAF.  

dbCooper

@lousubcap

I was responding more to the "authentic pleasure" comments than about your original article.  To be clear, I met the linoleum types well past high school.   🙂

Ybabpmuts

dbCooper said:

I've known women that were schooled in the "men are like linoleum" camp... "lay them right the first time, then you can walk all over them for years".  Those in the market should be wary around that type.

The problem with that is that if you lay linoleum wrong the first time, it's gonna develop random bubbles in places, develop wide cracks, and pick up dirt in those cracks. I went out with a girl in high school that had all three of those conditions at once. This is when I learned that some women are like linoleum, lay them wrong the first time and you can't walk on them at all.