First off. Obitz I feel for you. I am a professional tattoo artist and have been in this profession for more then 20 years. I do many "memory tattoos". After all these years the ones done for children are the hardest. A special bond is formed between the artist and client, however temporary, during the process. I can't imagine losing a child.
On a lighter note. I would love to tattoo a BGE on someone. Check out my website. www.bodyartkc.com
If interested contact me.