Got a new job!
Pay is less, however, I am currently working 50-55 hours a week with an hour and a half commute each way. I am salary so I don't get overtime and I have a mandatory 50 hour work week (even if I am just sitting only thumbs).
New job is hourly and will be 40 hours each week, no weekends, no long days, 2 weeks more of time each year.
I have come to realize that I can always make more money, but I can never get back the time with my children.
Will have to get creative with egging to save some costs.